My Addiction, Neglect, and Whatever Else Comes to Mind

I'm so sorry everyone that I have been neglecting my Bloggerville friends and my own blog as well. I think I need to go to Sorority Life anonymous . . . hey they just may have a group on myspace for people like me . . . maybe I can get addicted to that as well. LOL

I hope all my very cold friends in the midwest and East are OK and have power and are staying warm. I hate to mention this, but Summer has yet again paid us a visit and the temps were near 80 again today. I even thought about going down to the pool and laying out to work on my Winter tan but thought against it and decided I really shouldn't bring this up and post this since Y'all would be envious, but I thought, they love the snow, snowmen, snow angels, etc. and really don't care about beach weather in January. I know, Y'all want to smack me about now so I will stop.

Work has been very busy and very rewarding as well. I just love my job and literally can't wait to get up in the morning to go. It is my hope that everyone would have that kind of experience with their career. The only thing I'd change about it is that I so desperately want to work with children and I haven't had as much chance as I would like up until now. But I am a patient girl and I know I will get my opportunities.

Has anyone been watching American Idol? I have, and I think there are a lot of people with great potential and I look forward to following it until they crown the season 8 winner. I watched the premier of Hell's Kitchen tonight. I just adore Chef Ramsey and I know if I put my sorry cooking but on that show that he would take pity with me especially after I batted my eyelashes at him a few times. LOL

Survivor and the Amazing Race start up again next week. I can't wait. A reality show lovers Heaven. Remember, if anyone is interested, I do have a reality show group on myspace.com and if any of you would like to partake just let me know.

I hope the Cardinals win the Super Bowl this Sunday! I am once again jealous as Heather and her family will be departing shortly for Tampa to go to the game. She is such a spoiled chick.

I want to mention Valerie for a second too. She has obviously been neglecting her blog lately,even worse than muah! She has been very busy with work and going out on dates and breathing. So if anyone is worried about her don't be, she is perfectly ok and of course very beautiful as well.

Hope you will all have a wonderful and happy Friday and weekend. Luv ya! TTFN

You Are Cute-Sexy!

You are definitely attractive, and you have an interesting mix of sexiness and cuteness. You are both hot and quirky. Gorgeous and silly. Charming and natural. You are not so in-your-face sexy that you're unapproachable. You tone things down a bit. More than anything else, you are real and genuine. And that makes you truly captivating.

Are You Cute or Sexy?

Happy Birthday and Happy Day to All of Us

Just wanted to stop by with a short entry.

I have to start out with a Happy Birthday to my friend Heather! She will be celebrating it tomorrow, January 20th. I know she will have lots of fun and hopefully me too. LOL

Another great thing happening tomorrow of course, is that we will have our new President sworn into office just after noon East coast time. I am so exciting I could pee my panties just thinking about getting that current poser out of the White House. I have had enough with that murderer, thief, and liar. I wish I could tell you what I really think about Bush, but I'm a nice innocent girl and can't. LOL

Barrack gives us hope at a time we sure need it. We need to be able to believe and trust in our leaders and I am hoping and praying that he can be the person that will restore that to us, the American people. So no matter how you voted, please take an opportunity to pray for him and our country and give him a chance before casting judgment upon his administration.

I hope Y'all have a very happy Tuesday! Luv ya! TTFN

Your Friendship Style is Empathetic

You deeply care about each person you're friends with. For you, friendship is all about the personal connection. You tend to know everything about your friends' lives... and they know everything about yours. Your friends are your confidants. You are always there for your friends. You celebrate their successes and support them in their times of need. You are as loyal as they come. And you expect the same loyalty and understanding from your friends in return. You and another Empathetic Friend: Have a amazing friendship, when it works. You care for each other deeply, but you often end up with hurt feelings and drama. You and a Gregarious Friend: May have a bit of a one sided friendship. You adore your Social Friend, but you sometimes feel a bit neglected. You and an Independent Friend: Struggle a bit. You are very interested in your Independent Friend's life, but your friend often needs more space. You and a Philosophical Friend: Respect one another. You love to learn about your Philosophical Friend's brilliant ideas.

What's Your Friendship Style?

A New Weekend

It's been a while since I've made an entry. I didn't realize it has been so long. I guess I have been preoccupied with a bunch of stuff.

Me and my sister went to AZ to be with our cousin Michelle for a few days between Christmas and New Year's. She was doing ok despite the recent break up of her marriage. Then this past week her mom had a stroke. I feel so bad for her, going through so much and at one time like that. It is so hard for me to relate personal experience to her situation since I have seemingly led a non eventful life and bad things haven't befallen me so much. If you could all keep my cousin Michelle and her family in your prayers I'd appreciate it.

Another reason why I haven't been here is that I have become consumed, totally addicted to this game on myspace called Sorority Life. I have never been one to let something do this to me but here I am anyway. It doesn't help that my friend Heather is doing it as well so we are pretty much doing this together.

Work was pretty smooth this past week with the exception of one day where I was pretty well drained . . . but coming home to the Sorority Life game kinda picked me up. LOL

I was very happy watching the People's Choice awards this week, seeing Carrie Underwood singing and winning three awards. She is totally awesome and gorgeous and talented.

I hope you will all have a wonderful weekend. Luv ya! TTFN

You Are 80% Kissable

You are extremely kissable. People dream about and enjoy kissing you. You smell great and have an attractive smile. You take good care of yourself. And to the right person, you look like you're just waiting to be kissed. You seem effortlessly kissable - even though being kissable does take a lot of effort!

How Kissable Are You?

Happy New Year

Hi everyone! Happy New Year to everyone! I'm sure looking forward to the hope and promise that 2009 has in store for all of us.

Went to Arizona this week with my sister Carrie to see our cousin Michelle and spent some time with her and her children. It's a difficult time for her right now but she is holding up very well and we all had a very good time. She is so sweet and beautiful and always has been. We have always been very close.

We all had a nice Christmas as well this year. Have family and no health issues this year was quite the blessing.

Last night was quite a nice party at Heather's house. They always have such a nice shindig for New Year's Eve. We rang in the New Year with kisses and champagne, although some of spent some of the evening on myspace playing that Sorority Life game. I hate to say it but I'm completely addicted to this game. Heather is also but I think to a lesser extent.

Valerie looked her beautiful self last night as well, it has been a week since I've seen her and I did miss her. Tomorrow is her 25th Birthday, so happy birthday to my sweet little friend, I luv ya!

Today was full of excitement since we all got to go to the Rose Bowl game where we got to see our Trojans trounce Penn. St. It was my third Rose Bowl game in a row that I attendend and it never ceases to be exciting. I am fortunate to be able to go to these games and want to thank Heather and her dad for taking us . . . you guys are the best.

Well that is about all for now. Hope you all had safe and Sane New Years and I wish you and your entire families Love, hope and prosperity in the next 364 days of the year and beyond. Luv ya!

You Remember 100% of 2008

You were paying attention during 2008. And you remember what happened really well. You'll be able to talk about 2008 for years to come... Even when most people have forgotten what went down.

How Much Do You Remember 2008?

Merry Christmas

I just wanted to stop by and on behalf of my family to yours, Wish you a Very Merry Christmas!

I love all of you and you have given me the best Christmas present of all . . . You!

My sister and brother-in-law arrived late yesterday afternoon and I'm so glad she is here. I miss that girl more than she will ever know.

Please keep our Bloggerville friends Emmi and Donna, who supply us with so many wonderful tags and snags, in your prayers for the unfortunate times they are going through this holiday season. Merry Christmas to Valerie in Texas, I miss you and Luv ya Lots!

You Spread a Lot of Holiday Cheer

During the holidays, you represent the true spirit of Christmas. You give freely, and you enjoy this special time of the year. There's a good chance that you spread cheer every time of the year... not just during the holidays. You're kind, upbeat, and generous. Anyone who crosses your path is lucky.

Do You Spread Holiday Cheer?

Friday Update

Hi Everyone, I thought I'd better update again. The last thing you saw from me was Cosmo and getting naughty. Hehe So I figured when Valerie came over tonight, to make up for that it was time to make super sweet so we can be on the nice list this year, so we watched the Santa Claus and the Santa Clause 2. Do any of you have tears in your eyes watching these movies like me? I do that for all sorts of movies that have any sentimentality to them. So hopefully Santa Baby saw that and put me on the nice list and if he did I have something nice for him come Wednesday night. Hehe

It was a very good week for me. I pretty much finished all my Christmas shopping, and had a very productive work week as well. I love this time of year don't you? All the twinkling little lights, the displays in the front yards, the work parties, the family get togethers. I absolutely just love it. Valerie is spending some time with me this weekend and we are going to Heather's family's big annual Christmas Party tomorrow night. Can't wait, it was so much fun last year.

Rene is doing well now that he is out of school until January. He is busy working and is out with the guys tonight. It's been a while since he had some free time and he deserves some fun time away from his wifey . . . but that doesn't mean he can stay away too long cause his little Allison has been reading some more Cosmo. LOL I will have to share again soon! : )~

Anyway, I have to finish up somethings so I can be ready for the Ghost Whisperer. Have a wonderful weekend. Luv ya! TTFN

You are Lively and Inspiring

You approach the holidays with lots of energy and enthusiasm. It's definitely your favorite time of the year. You are quite social during the holidays. You go to lots of events and get in touch with everyone you know. While so much activity would make most people exhausted, it only energizes you more. Of all the types, you are the most likely to treat your friends and family to expensive gifts. You're also the most likely to wrap your gifts elegantly and simply.

The Wrapping Paper Test

***Adult Content*** ; ) Very Very Satisfying

I got this out of Cosmopolitan and me and Rene did this last night. Oh god did it feel so good. I know I'm being a little naughty but what can I say, I guess I am a little naughty. I really does feel good and maybe you can give it a try to if you haven't already. I can't wait for him to come home again LOL
Obviously, there are plenty of amazing sex positions to choose from, and we've brought you our fair share of them. But there's one in particular that rises above the rest on the steaminess meter: getting busy against a wall. In a recent Cosmo poll, men (and women too) voted this sexiest position of all. (Maybe we can thank the lusty library scene in Atonement, when James McAvoy ravishes Keira Knightley against a wall-to-wall bookshelf!)

The basic primal nature of having sex against a wall is the reason why it's unbelievably torrid. "When you're so aroused that you just can't wait another second, this is an immediate solution for expressing that intensity," says Lori Buckley, PhD, sex therapist in Pasadena, California. "The fact that your guy is pressing you into the wall lends it an urgent, almost aggressive feel." But while this position couldn't be hotter, it's not the smoothest to put into action. So it helps to have a primer.

Maximize What Makes It So Scorching
The sense of urgency in wall sex is one of its lustiest selling points. Amplify that by leaving on some of your clothes, suggests Buckley. Begin ripping off each other's attire as soon as you walk through the door, yet don't take everything off — for example, you can have him pull down your underwear but keep your skirt on or unbutton his shirt without stripping it off.

Also adding to the appeal is that you're being dominated. "Some guys love to feel powerful, and since he has you pinned against the wall, he's in complete control of the pace and depth of his thrusting," explains Sari locker, PhD, author of The Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex. With your man right in front of you and the wall buffering your back, your movement is restricted. You'll experience a sensation of vulnerability and confinement, which can be a huge turn-on.

Another hot bonus is the superb clitoral stimulation the position provides, according to Buckley. Your pelvis is slightly lower than his, putting your hot spot directly in line with his pubic bone. When he's deep inside of you, gently rub your C-spot against him. At the same time, tighten your thighs — it'll narrow your vaginal canal, creating pleasurable friction.

Master the Position
Stand about a foot away from the wall, and lean your back against it. Your man should stand facing you, so close that you're almost touching. Straddle his legs, have him bend his knees slightly, and slide your back down the wall to lower yourself onto him. As he slips his hands under your butt, wrap your legs around his waist. For balance, circle your arms around his neck or back or hold on to his arms. Firmly press your back against the wall for leverage while he straightens himself up.

Because you have limited mobility, he'll be doing the thrusting, rocking your pelvis back and forth with his hands in tandem with his movements. When you're finished or want to try a new position, make the transition seamless by having him squat down until your feet reach the floor.

Special Challenges Since the position requires considerable strength on his part, you probably can't sustain it for very long. If there's not too much of a height difference between you, nix fatigue by remaining standing, rather than having him lift you. Hook one of your legs over his inner elbow, keeping the other on the floor for balance.

You might also worry that he's doing most of the work. "Stressing about whether he's running out of steam or you're too heavy can interfere with your enjoyment," says Buckley. Keep in mind: He's so excited to try this sizzling style that he's probably just thinking how sexy it all is.

If you do want to get more involved, here's a fix: Have him pull you a couple inches away from the wall, until only your shoulders rest on it. Then begin slowly circling your hips in either direction. It is a great sensation and also gives you some control.

Try a Sexy Variation
A doggie-style spin feels super-naughty, plus it's easier than the regular move. Stand an arm's length away from the wall, facing it, with your legs shoulder-width apart and your knees slightly bent. Bend over so your torso is at a right angle to the wall, parallel with the floor. Place your palms against the wall, and let him enter you from behind. (To make up for a minor height discrepancy, stand on your tiptoes or have him bend his knees until he's level with your vagina.) Push your hands against the wall in time with his thrusts or reach down and stimulate yourself.

You also can regulate how far he penetrates you. If you're craving intensity, bend farther toward the floor. "He'll be able to enter you very deeply, and you'll feel increased pressure," says Locker. For shallower penetration, straighten up slightly. "Each angle grips the penis differently, providing new sensations for both of you," explains Locker. You also can stand up and press your entire body into the wall.

For this next hot twist, place a bar stool against the wall, perch on the edge of it, and lean back to rest your shoulders on the wall. Your pelvises will be nearly aligned, so he can slide right into you. For increased friction, wrap your legs around his butt. "The stool allows the two of you to concentrate more on kissing and touching and less on maintaining balance," notes Locker.

And that extra affection lends the sexiest position a very sensual and intimate vibe too.

5 Hot Things to Do with Your Hands
While he's holding you during wall action, your fingers are free to roam. These moves will max the pleasure.

1. Draw him close.
Arch your back, and put one hand behind his neck and pull his face toward your breasts. It shows how bad you're craving him.

2. Apply pressure.
Push your nails into his back or gently tug the roots of his hair. A rough touch feels wild and conveys your excitement for him.

3. Stroke your breasts.
Watching you turn yourself on is a thrilling visual for him.

4. Hold his face.
Place your palms flat against his cheeks, and gaze directly into his eyes. This way, you'll be able to see each other's enjoyment.

5. Give a sexy squeeze.
Grip your guy's biceps, chest muscles, and shoulders — expressing how much you love his body gives him a confidence boost.

Source: Lori Hollander, Couples and Sex Therapist in Ann Harbor, Michigan